Being your most authentic self speaks to the choice you make to show up as true self, unapologetically and fully, even if it doesn't meet the expectations other people have of you. While I believe being authentic within our relationships is one of the most important attributes of a healthy relationship, I also understand and can empathize with how scary and challenging this can be and feel sometimes.
Even though I believe in being our most authentic selves within our relationships, it’s not always easy for me to do it. Sometimes I can get in my head about if I should or shouldn’t say something because I may not be sure of how the other person will respond, but it’s in these moments that I remind myself it’s okay for me to speak up and use my voice. It’s okay for you to advocate for yourself and to say what you need, and being able to do that is all a part of you showing up authentically.
When relationships lack authenticity they lack the levels of depth and intimacy that could actually be present. When we choose to be inauthentic or disingenuous simply to appease the expectations of others we do everyone involved a huge disservice. Choosing to show up as your most authentic self communicates that you love and value yourself as well as the other person or other people. It communicates genuineness and honesty, and when those are present our relationships feel richer, more fulfilling and more satisfying. Here’s to you being brave and courageous enough to take the steps you need to show up as your most authentic self in as many spaces as possible! ♥️✨